Hey friends,
The Florida skies are throwing tantrums again. They have a talent for hijacking our plans, in the same way stress and shame hijacks our nervous system. In this week’s episode, Ashley and I unpack why some of us dive under the covers when it storms, while others grab their boots and splash outside. Along the way we weave in clinical insights (defensive pessimism, learned helplessness, DBT’s opposite-to-emotion action skill) and a few personal stories, including one about the thunderstorm on our wedding day that still makes us smile.
🌦️ Today’s episode in Three Sweeps
• When clouds roll in → why shame spirals hijack the forecast.
• Finding traction → growth mindset, micro-courage, phone-a-friend.
• Choosing your weather → radical acceptance + the crowd you keep.
Here’s something to reflect on today: Acting in a way that is contrary to how you feel doesn’t mean faking a smile, it’s refusing to let the clouds write the forecast.
~ Ashley & Alex
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